| # | Title | Journal | Year | Citations |
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| 1 | The patient's experience of the analyst's subjectivity | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 329 |
| 2 | Mentalization and the changing aims of child psychoanalysis | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1998 | 319 |
| 3 | Mirror Neurons, Embodied Simulation, and the Neural Basis of Social Identification | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2009 | 308 |
| 4 | Discussion: Toward a social‐constructivist view of the psychoanalytic situation | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 304 |
| 5 | Dynamic Systems Theory and the Complexity of Change | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2005 | 296 |
| 6 | Mother—infant interaction structures and presymbolic self‐ and object representations | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1997 | 294 |
| 7 | Melancholy gender—refused identification | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1995 | 236 |
| 8 | Love in the afternoon: A relational reconsideration of desire and dread in the countertransference | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1994 | 220 |
| 9 | Whose Bad Objects Are We Anyway? Repetition and Our Elusive Love Affair with Evil | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2004 | 213 |
| 10 | A Dialogue on Racial Melancholia | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2000 | 211 |
| 11 | Toward a critical relational theory of gender | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 190 |
| 12 | Some practical implications of a social‐constructivist view of the psychoanalytic situation | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1992 | 182 |
| 13 | “Speak! that I may see you”; some reflections on dissociation, reality, and psychoanalytic listening | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1994 | 179 |
| 14 | Why the analyst needs to change: Toward a theory of conflict, negotiation, and mutual influence in the therapeutic process | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1998 | 168 |
| 15 | The Right Brain Implicit Self Lies at the Core of Psychoanalysis | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2011 | 163 |
| 16 | Dissociative processes and transference‐countertransference paradigms in the psychoanalytically oriented treatment of adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1992 | 157 |
| 17 | Thinking Differently Principles of Process in Living Systems and the Specificity of Being Known | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2002 | 157 |
| 18 | Deconstructing difference: Gender, splitting, and transitional space | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 147 |
| 19 | Black and White Thinking: A Psychoanalyst Reconsiders Race | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2000 | 145 |
| 20 | Shared Trauma: The Therapist's Increased Vulnerability | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2002 | 139 |
| 21 | Racial Enactments in Dynamic Treatment | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2000 | 137 |
| 22 | Interpretation as expression of the analyst's subjectivity | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1992 | 129 |
| 23 | On knowing one's patient inside out: The aesthetics of unconscious communication∗1 | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 114 |
| 24 | Gender as contradiction | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 112 |
| 25 | Paradox and process | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1992 | 111 |
| 26 | “E” Enactments in Psychoanalysis: Another Medium, Another Message | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2003 | 109 |
| 27 | Exploring Ferenczi's Concept of Identification with the Aggressor: Its Role in Trauma, Everyday Life, and the Therapeutic Relationship | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2002 | 107 |
| 28 | The internalized primal scene | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1995 | 106 |
| 29 | “You Must Remember This” | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2009 | 106 |
| 30 | The negotiation of paradox in the analytic process∗ | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1992 | 102 |
| 31 | Unraveling Whiteness | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2007 | 102 |
| 32 | Contemporary perspectives on self: Toward an integration | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 98 |
| 33 | Dynamic Systems Theories as a Metaframework for Psychoanalysis | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2005 | 98 |
| 34 | A Relational Encounter with Race | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2004 | 95 |
| 35 | Who's Responsible? Our Mutual Implication in Each Other's Suffering | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2009 | 95 |
| 36 | Between the disclosure and foreclosure of erotic transference‐countertransference can psychoanalysis find a place for adult sexuality? | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1998 | 92 |
| 37 | Forms of Relational Meaning: Issues in the Relations Between the Implicit and Reflective-Verbal Domains | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2008 | 91 |
| 38 | Race for Cover: Castrated Whiteness, Perverse Consequences | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2004 | 90 |
| 39 | Cultivating the Improvisational in Psychoanalytic Treatment | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2001 | 88 |
| 40 | It Takes One to Know One; or, Whose Unconscious Is It Anyway? | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2001 | 85 |
| 41 | Needed relationships and repeated relationships an integrated relational perspective | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1994 | 84 |
| 42 | Integrating kleinian theory and intersubjective infant research observing projective identification | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1999 | 81 |
| 43 | Falling in Love with Love Oedipal and Postoedipal Manifestations of Idealization, Mourning, and Erotic Masochism | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2003 | 79 |
| 44 | Multiple Perspectives on Multiplicity | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1998 | 77 |
| 45 | When the Frame Doesn't Fit the Picture | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2007 | 76 |
| 46 | Identity and the experience of specificity in a process of recognition commentaries on Seligman and Shanok | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1995 | 75 |
| 47 | On the Origins of Disorganized Attachment and Internal Working Models: Paper II. An Empirical Microanalysis of 4-Month Mother–Infant Interaction | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2012 | 74 |
| 48 | Father and daughter: Identification with difference—a contribution to gender heterodoxy | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1991 | 72 |
| 49 | Wish, Need, Drive: Motive in the Light of Dynamic Systems Theory and Edelman's Selectionist Theory | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 2002 | 72 |
| 50 | Negative maternal attributions, projective identification, and the intergenerational transmission of violent relational patterns | Psychoanalytic Dialogues | 1999 | 71 |
